Superb Ways To Win A Girl In One Night

Finding women for a one-night stand can take practice, but gets easier over time. Women are not much different from men when it comes to the infamous "one night stand". While men are looked at as “"sex gods" or "sex symbols", women are just labeled whores. Don’t let this fool you. though; it may be frowned upon for a women to participate, but there are many women who do take part in this activity. The key here is to be able to pick out the right women with the same mindset as you.

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Look your best before you go out. Taking good care of yourself sends a positive message to women. It shows that you respect yourself.

Shower.
Apply deodorant. If you want cologne, keep it very light.
Brush and floss.
Wear clean, flattering clothes. Ask a fashion-conscious family member for recommendations if needed.

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Project open, confident body language. If you skulk in a corner alone, she might think that you're not looking for women, or that you're not a very fun person to be with. Show her that you're available, and interested in being approached.

Look around the room.
Make eye contact, and smile.
Keep your body language open: don't cross your arms or legs.
Put away your phone, headphones, book, et cetera, so she doesn't think you're busy.

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Keep a positive, respectful attitude. Women look for people who will treat them right. She wants to know that you'll listen to take care of her needs. You want her to think that you're a catch.

FINDING A WOMAN......

Rule out women who aren't dressed to impress. Some women "dress down" as a signal that they're not looking for romance, which makes it easier for you to focus on those who are. However, not every woman who dresses up is looking for a date.

Sometimes women dress up because they want to have fun with friends, or to help them feel good about themselves. They may not want attention from strangers.
Focus on body language. This is much more reliable for finding women who are interested.

Look for women who are looking for relationships. Some women bounce around, talking and flirting with people. These are the women to watch, because there's a good chance that their goals are similar to yours.

Start meeting her eyes, smiling, and looking her way.
Try approaching when she's in between people to flirt with.

Watch women's body language. Some women just want to have fun with friends or go about their business, while others are looking for romance. Here are signs that a woman may be open to being approached:

She's looking around at people.
She makes eye contact with you, and smiles.
She has a pleasant expression.
Her body language is open (she's not crossing her arms or legs).
She's not wearing headphones or in the middle of something (like a book).

Wait for, or make, the approach. A bolder woman may walk over to you, or if she's shy or nervous, she might be hesitant. If you've caught each other's eyes a few times, and she's smiling

Start with light, positive conversation. Talk about something small. The goal isn't to have a deep conversation: it's to evaluate her body language and whether she's receptive (and for her to check you out too).

Compliment her once or twice.
Talk about the location or the weather.

Listen to her. Women want to be heard. Being interested is more important than being interesting. Ask her about herself, and pay attention to what she says.

If she's talking and talking, this means she feels relaxed around you. It's a good sign.

Make sure that you're non-threatening. Your goal is to make her feel at ease, not to make her feel like prey being stalked. You want her to relax and feel safe around you, so she can have fun.

Respect her personal space. Don't come too close too quickly.
Don't block her exit. Let her leave if she wants.
Avoid pressuring her. If she wants to leave, she can.

Pick up signals. Look for signs that things are going well. You want one who gives you a good vibe. Here are signs that she's into you, and that she's interested in talking more (and maybe seeing where things can go):

She's an active participant in the conversation. Talking to her is pretty easy.
She's looking at you.
Her hands and posture are relaxed.
She smiles and laughs easily.
Her arms and legs are uncrossed.
She turns her feet and body towards you.
Both of you seem to be having fun.

Let her go and try a different woman if this woman seems stressed. Some women are skittish, and not ready for a hookup. They have a hard time saying "no," because they're scared that you'll get angry or aggressive. If she looks agitated, give a friendly smile, tell her to have a good evening, and walk away. Then look for a woman who's more relaxed. Here are signs that she's not into it, and you should quit wasting your time:

She gives short, one-word (or small) answers.
She keeps looking around, like she's looking for an exit.
She doesn't look at you much, or at all.
She seems tense.
She's fidgeting and looking awkward.
She gives a polite smile (which means her mouth smiles, but it doesn't reach her eyes).
She's crossing her arms or legs.
She turns her body and/or feet away from you.
She'd rather spend time with friends tonight.
She says she has a boyfriend. (Even if she's lying, it means you're wasting your time here.)
You find it hard to keep a pleasant conversation going. You're doing all the work.

Slow down if you get mixed signals. Some women might be confused, unsure what they want, or struggling to make up their mind. Relax, slow down, and follow her lead. If she decides she wants to kick it up a notch, her words and body language will start showing it.

Pushing her will only push her away.

Keep an easy-come, easy-go attitude. Would you hook up with any woman on the street? Of course not. Similarly, women may have a type, or different plans for the night. That's okay. Nothing's wrong with you; it just wasn't meant to happen. Let her go and look for someone more open.

If you're telling yourself "maybe I can convince her," that's a sign that it's going downhill and you're wasting your time. A good catch is one who doesn't need convincing.

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Superb Ways To Win A Girl In One Night