Ask yourself these questions if your partner shows signs of unhappiness
Ask yourself these questions if your partner shows signs of unhappiness
Sometimes the solution to your partner’s happiness isn’t really with them, but entirely with you.
We all know relationships and marriages are about experiencing the most happiness and positive vibes possible. So when your partner is going through a phase of unhappiness, it is all normal to ask questions.
As a good partner, your
questions will understandably be with a view to improving your boyfriend
or girlfriend’s mood and trying to see how to restore their happiness.
Expectedly,
you’d want to direct those questions to the unhappy partner in order to
know what to do to make them happy again. Sometimes however, the answer
to your partner’s happiness isn’t really with them, but with you. And
it is more useful to ask yourself questions, to see if somehow, you are
part or the whole reason for their moodiness.
This is important because self-assessment is one thing all couples need at regular intervals of their relationship.The
duty to always be the best possible version of yourself is ever-present
on you and your partner. So whenever your partner shows elongated signs
of unhappiness and nothing you do seems to cheer them up or lift their
mood, you need to ask yourself if you have been good and proffer for
yourself honest answers. This could be the difference between having a
partner who is
Perpetually sad and one who is happy and satisfied.
So
you should ask yourself; am I really doing this or that in the manner
my babe likes it? Have I been paying him or her enough attention? Do I
say I love you enough? Do I meet their emotional needs?
You
may be asking yourself; why do I have to do any introspection when they
can just easily communicate with me on anything I could have done to
wrong them in any way.
The answer to that is this: when a partner repeatedly
communicates his or her worries and dissatisfactions and nothing gets
done about it, there’s a likelihood that they’ll not say anything about
it anymore. They’ll likely choose to remain silent, unhappy and maybe
resentful instead of communicating about the problem because over time,
all their complaints and communication have fallen on deaf ears and
never yielded any good result.
What this
further establishes is the necessity of humble self-assessment in
relationships. Never feel too big to assess yourself, note your own
errors and change for the good of your relationship even without being
told by your partner.
That could be all you need to make your partner move away from a gloomy, depressed person to a happy sweetheart.
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